Hi, Mary ... sorry I am late responding to this and sharing it, but the message will be valid a thousand years from now, so ...

Your honesty and candor about this episode in your leadership journey is both touching and very inspiring.  We have probably all did and said things we later regretted in our dealings with others, but you have beautifully illustrated how learning from our mistakes can benefit us, and others.

I am reminded here of something that was pounded into me as a young Army officer "a few years back":   You are a leader, clearly identified and looked to by all.  You don't get the luxury of being self-indulgent or putting yourself first.  Lead from the front, eat last, and never forget why you are here."

Your story well illustrates what can happen when we indulge ourselves, as I have done more times than I should have.

As always, your thoughts are enjoyable to read, clear in the message, and just shout to be shared with a broader audience:).

John