This post made me smile... You encountered an old-fashioned thinker :)

New leadership means to me that we change roles all the time. You can take the lead and I follow. Next time, in a different context, I take the lead.

It's not about us - it's about what wants to be manifested through our collaboration, whether we'd like to label that leading or following. It doesn't really matter to me - but it still does to many people.

Marcella Bremer