Jane - wonderful article.  Self awareness and understanding is paramount to leading. I have reported to more than one Pres/CEO of large organizations who had blind spots when it came to the impact of their own words and behaviors. If they haven't been developed to remain constantly aware of how they are evolving, based on responsibility, accountability, etc., they easily lose sight of the ripple effects they create. I'm passing this on to a few people who will find it extremely relevant and useful.