Oliver, your response touched me. I have close friends who have been where you are and when they share their stories all I can do is applaud them for being real with themselves and deciding minute by minute what they really want their life to look like. Long ago I decided one of my life mottos would be, "Mind your moments because they become your memories." What your new life will look like in 20 years is vastly different from the outcome of your old life. I am so incredibly proud of you, Oliver. You're extraordinary - and always remember that.