Very insightful Mike as well as powerful in its simplicity as John pointed out.

One I can think to add is Let Go.  I could often anticipate what was going to break down and spent far too much energy "putting my finger in the dyke".  It was exhausting!  The real problem was nothing got learned and nothing really changed for the better.  I had to learn to let things get messy sometimes and instead of trying to prevent the mess or the breakdown I had to let go enough to empower others to step up and lead.