Great post, Mary! It seems to me that you've hit on a topic that should be near and dear to the hearts of many character-based leaders. When we choose to lead with character, we must base our actions on the innate value of those we lead. This can be a very challenging thing to do if we don't find a reason to "love" our followers. We may not always "like" everyone on our team, but we should always be treating them with the consideration due another human being with feelings.

When I speak to groups, I often will ask a leading question about what they do with the business cards they collect at various networking events, business meetings, etc. I'll see sheepish grins around the room with a few tentative hands raised to answer the question. People will share their thoughts and ideas, and we build upon them. But I always finish it with this: Remember that each one represents an individual (someone’s brother, mother, lover and friend), not just a business. How would you like people to treat your loved ones? Give them the same respect.