Thank you for drawing the distinction between love as an emotion and love as demonstrated in "choosing what is right and best for the other person, rather than what you want or feel like doing.  It is about behavior, not feelings." As I think about this, I would include the other words you wrote, compassion, empathy and thoughtfulness. I am saying this thinking about  we can choose what's best from a collaborative, person-to-person perspective (which I understand to be what you're thinking of)  or we could choose what's best based on a worldview or set of assumptions that doesn't fully understand or account for the other. Anyhow, I've been thinking of this topic and of our culture's unwillingness to discuss the idea of love (respect, support, caring, empathy) as part of the world of work. It was very helpful to read your ideas here. Thank you!