A very thought provoking article John. I have learned to take  other's opinions about another person with a grain of salt. That was their first impression and doesn't mean it will be mine. We all have different filters and perceptions based on past experiences that tend to shape thoughts possibly away from true reality. Has anyone ever misjudged a person? Sure, we all have for one reason or another. It was that moment in time that shaped our perception. Clarity is not always abundant depending on the state of mind.

I am on the content team for the University of Notre Dame online and originate a variety of articles which you can find here: http://www.notredameonline.com/resources/leadership-and-management. I'm glad I ran across your article. It has inspired me to create an article about communication.