Erin,

I loved this discussion because it opens up the exact conversation that is necessary in this ever-changing world.  Whenever I think about leadership I always return to those values we discussed so often at Leaderpalooza...  compassion, ability, integrity and our heartfelt belief that focusing on gaining followers is a surefire way of compromising our principles.  Instead we focus on leading ourselves.  I think our world is starved for integrity.  People know and follow it when they see it.

As for our Green Beret friend, he is undoubtably a leader of his own people and in my mind is likely able and honorable.  Perhaps it is that missing 3rd component that we are looking for, the compassion.  I think I would ask him, is what he has done the best way to lead Erin?  It did result in this great discussion, and so perhaps he would think that is a success, but I attribute this discussion more to your response Erin, than his.

In the end, it is your willingness to lead yourself Erin, to risk, to open your mind, to act with integrity here and always, to use your strengths, and to offer your hand to me and anyone willing to join you than makes you a leader.  I for one will follow you, Erin.

Deb Costello