Hi Mike, there were so many points in this post that really struck a chord for me. The "People Pleasing" section is especially poignant. I often find myself saying "yes" to commitments because the person I think I'm supposed to be would say "yes." Sometimes saying "yes" is because it is difficult to say "no." Although, when I think about these situations , there's another dynamic at work. At times, saying "yes" is not so much denying my uniqueness in an effort to be like everyone else. It's more about not giving in to the part of me that hates doing/trying things outside of my comfort zone. I know if I give into that fear, it will keep me from succeeding or contributing.

I love your posts! They getting people thinking and discussing!
--Nicole