This is about as concise a list as I have seen in recent memory. i am particularly fond of #1 "Instill a strong belief in family and unity."  As an Entrepreneur, Marketing Strategist, Negotiations Architect, Speaker, and Author of CDO Chief Daddy Officer®- The Business of Fatherhood (http://amzn.to/CDOall), I understands first hand that the dynamics of success are the same whether you are addressing a group at work, or tucking your child into bed at night. My book takes every one of the 11 Steps you have outlined and applies them to business and personal relationships, and parenting in particular.  I'd be happy to discuss further if interested.  Kudos for your good work