Sonia,
Thank you yet again for your insights and for sharing so openly.  You lead by example!  Being self-aware is such an important quality of a great leader and being able to openly share what we learn about ourselves creates trust and respect so critical to a team's success.  I like your suggestion of collaboratively creating guiding principles that can serve to stay on track as the team moves forward on any given project.  I fully agree that once you have a clear idea of the process, the true measure of success is how well we integrate our understanding of the people involved.  The process is only as good as the people who implement the process and keeping each team member fully engaged is the key to success.
Great discussion!
Fanny