I understand that there is some speech that is offensive to some and not to others.  I get that.  I also understand the need for firm, even harsh correction or direction that may come across as offensive.  However, I'm still convinced that some things are always wrong.  You mentioned the recent episode with Rush.  I am a conservative Republican, and I believe Rush was absolutely wrong in what he said.  It is always wrong to denigrate based on gender, whether male or female.  It has been just as wrong for Bill Maher to do it regarding Sarah Palin, and Ed Schultz in his remarks about Laura Ingraham.  But they argue that their comments are different, because of the public nature of their targets.  That's BS.  (there's some of that offensive language!).  It is always wrong to denigrate or use offensive gender terminology, period.  It is always wrong to be verbally abusive to children, attacking who they are instead of what they have done.  That same standard should apply in all of our relationships, whether it's in the family, workplace or the sale aisle at Wal-Mart.  I know we'll all never agree on everything regarding what's offensive and what's not.  But we ought to all be able to agree on somethings.