As a matter of habit, I've always used these 3 questions when handling important decisions in my career. The true acid test for me was when I accepted a voluntary position as a Treasurer for a Society and the President wanted me to sign a check to transfer a fund to a bank of his choice which was not permitted in the Bye Laws. The Committee knew my vocational modality but not my reputation.  I held my ground and informed the other members of the Committee and then resigned on principle when I found no support. The transfer of funds did take place and there was an uproar. To date the funds have not been brought back even though the management has since changed but I have noticed that when I speak, the general body listens to me as my resignation and stand has conveyed my integrity.