This is a great addition Stephanie. Thanks for adding it.  I agree with you that the easiest way for me to stop trusting someone is gossip.  Unfortunately, gossip is also a weakness of mine that I must constantly struggle with so that may be why I left it off the list.  Thanks for the reminder that people often see us as doing to them the very thing we're doing.  That's why giving others the benefit of the doubt and appreciating them are on the list.  Gossip definitely needs to be added.  Thanks!