Hi, Will - thanks for an interesting post and a fascinating story.

Your point is well taken:  Be prepared:)

I have experienced two extremes regarding this in my life.   In some things, I have prepared to the point of over-preparation, sometimes with little real possibility that I will have the opportunity to shine, as they say.  My professional focus includes much preparation around leadership - both theory and application.  I absorb books and articles relating to how leaders, followers, and situations combine and have tried to keep up with the sometimes dizzying pace.

Because of this, I feel pretty comfortable when leadership is the topic or the issue.  I know enough to identify the background dynamics of a particular leadership situation and have developed several principles that overlay all the theoretical and academic information.

I feel well-equipped ...

In other situations, I have felt like I was completely unready for the things which came my way and actually have wanted to hide from what was before me on more than one occasion.

One particular circumstance is around dealing with extreme emotion, especially in connection with loss.   I am fine reading a book about grief, loss, and mourning, and have even received specialized training in helping others cope, but I still feel like the poster child for the "Deer In Headlights" look when I have to face this situation.

In both cases, the preparation is essential, but in one situation, I can easily feel comfortable, but in the other, I doubt I ever really "get used to it" ... and probably should not.

Thanks for a very personal and helpful post:)

John