I love this post Mike because it is so true.  So many times we do things ourselves because it is easier than the work it takes to ensure another is held accountable.  I see it all the time in the children I teach.  As parents it is important that we allow our children to be held accountable and to hold them accountable ourselves.  Every action has consequences and nothing is learned until we experience these consequences.  It is hard work and emotionally difficult, but real love often is...

Thank you Mike, and have a wonderful, mushy, accountable Valentine's Day!
Give my best to your beautiful Vicki...