I think sports are a powerful teacher for kids and adults alike, and I used to think that it didn't matter what the parents did or did not do.  Playing the sport would teach the necessary lessons on winning and losing, teamwork and leadership.  But sports have changed a lot in the past 20 years.  There are fewer positive role models on the field, acting as coaches, and sitting in the stands.  Our kids hear mixed messages and winning has become so much more important.  I think parents MUST help their kids navigate the sports landscape and understand the importance of these lessons against this changing backdrop.  I appreciate your sharing of this value.