Joh, this article talks about so many serious issues that most of us tend to avoid simply because we are afraid of the answers. This is how frustrations are born, communication almost ceases to exist, and a whole relationship turns into ashes. I find these two question "How supportive are you of one another’s activities, goals, and aspirations?" and "How clear are you about your needs and desires?" the most intriguing because they refer to personal desires that need to be met in order to be able to understand one another and provide the needed support.