I agree the random acts and even the targeted one-of-a-kind acts are necessary and they help keep us grounded.  But also, like your LeadSwag group, when you connect with someone, it is more fun to invest in them than it is to calculate what you're getting from the relationship.  It's always better to focus on the "investment" side of the equation rather than on the "return" side.

Thanks for the the comment and your participation in the group too!