I love the second definition of self-confidence, that we are sure we will be able to weather whatever comes are way. For me, this is a confidence in the universe as a whole and my ability to really be a part of the whole.Sometimes I can do this on my own - most of the time I need a lot of help! However,  self-confidence is knowledge that as long as I show up, ask for help when I need it and truly invest in whatever I'm doing, things will be okay.