Sean:

Wow, just wow ... this is a seriously impactful post that packs a wealth of personal and professional development into a gripping story and some thoughtful observations.

Several points really grabbed me:

1)  "I had assumed he was irresponsible. I assumed he was oversleeping. I had assumed the negative in absence of information."

We are always hearing about the negative power of assumptions and I am one of many who preach about not assuming things.  You have instead provided a powerful story about what happens when you assume.   I appreciate you sharing it.

2)  "We moved every piece of furniture and we carried boxes and we spent time together eating and laughing like we never would have on the court. They became a closer team off the court by investing in each other."

A great testimonial to the power of working together, not just on the group goals and activities, but working as a group on things outside the business end of our lives.   I know this type of sharing works to create more cohesive and powerful teams because I have experienced it time and again.  I wish more people were willing to experience the value of doing things together.

3)  "Winning teammates don’t give or accept speeding fines."

I love this phrase.  It goes to the heart of connecting with others beyond the superficial or mundane and being aware of others in ways that are not always part of our daily routines.

You just sold at least one book ... and maybe more.   I cannot wait to read more of your thoughts.

Thanks for enhancing my weekday routine with some engaging and useful leadership thinking:)

John