Hi, Julian - thanks for commenting.

Could not agree more that we all need to choose carefully who we associate with.

Of course, some folks that appear to be much like me would fall into that negative category, while others who appear to have little in common may be very optimistic and have much to offer.

If one needs to practice mindfulness just to cope with being around a certain person, that is definitely a strong sign that a change is needed.

My point is that when we look for others with whom to associate, we should not automatically restrict ourselves or eliminate someone from consideration simply because they appear different.

In my line of work, being around someone who is negative might be considered a challenge for me to model positive behavior and influence that other toward more positive behavior through carefully-chosen questions and listening.

Appreciate your contribution:)

John