Hi, Mike - thanks for commenting.

You are right on with your observation that observing is sometimes a good thing and sometimes, not so much.  I have found that the trick, as it so often is, revolves around being able to tell when you are observing in order to more fully grasp the situation in a comprehensive way and when you are just watching and hoping it will disappear on its own.

We are the only ones who can truly know when we are being thoughtful and when we are avoiding.  I know I struggle with this on a continuing basis.

BTW, I have found your actions to be consistently thoughtful:).

Have a great week and enjoy the upcoming holiday!

John