Tara,
Good writing taps into the author's personal experiences and offered up as a lesson or insight benefiting the reader. You offer up to all of us a beautiful illustration of what leadership in action is. It often is unassuming, easily missed by the hurried observer. Frank's character certainly shows us that giving is a vital part of leadership.
And perhaps my favorite message in your post is the quiet reminder to focus on giving and not how people benefit from it. Frank gave solely to help, or to serve. Because this leadership act is quiet it's hard to say how often it happens. I say more please.

Thank you for trusting us to share such a personal example. Thank you for pulling out such a beautiful leadership lesson. Frank is honored up there in heaven.