You Nailed It Sis.... I have been trow en in the deep ends to many times and its so true people are watching what you'll do......and my Mentor my teacher gave me this precious advice of the wolves and it gave me the courage to play along with " The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting". And yes i have been victories many times and believe it gave me a new perceptive to enduring rough people who can't care for a penny..........and i still here smiling to the last bite....and thank you for your courage's words... they helped alot.....