Mike, I believe we can always balance goals and responsibilities. Too many people rationalize the deterioration or destruction of family for value of their pursuits.

I have often missed family meals or events for work, but this is over many years and only for significant matters. My family understands that "coming first" does not mean work will never be a priority. Work comes before family only when it must, and I trust myself, my wife, and colleagues to properly recognize those "must" times.