Mike - great post and loved the "Bourne" movie analogy. Some years ago, I asked an executive; "What's the greatest asset in your company?" He replied; "Easy, people." I said; "Really? Do you really value the employees you have above all else?" His response was; "No. I revenue and my share price, but I'd tell the board, analysts and our employees that its my team and employees."

I could have been shocked, but at least he was telling the truth. A sad truth, but the truth still. As leaders, if we aren't focused in expanding the capabilities of our team and growing them, then what's the use?

Not only do leaders have to "dream of helping others," they have to place those dreams into action and begin mentoring those they manage, support those in their community and most importantly, within the walls of their own homes.

If those you lead see you engaging and putting forth your best effort on their behalf, you'll answer many of the questions in your post by providing a path that's in their best interest.