What a great balcony view of those "types" that can put a wrinkle or a defined crease in our sensibilities because we do not know how to "deal" with them.  Thanks for your lens regarding  pointers about how to help support, nurture, and provide boundaries for people with those traits.   Proverbs 20:5 states it quite eloquently -The purposes of a persons heart are deep waters but one who has insight draws them out.