Tara,

I can relate to your story that we may not know for whom we're an "Aly" until after the fact. As a teacher, facilitator, trainer, etc. I receive notes and comments from students years ago who thank me for making a difference. Which humble me, yet makes me reply that *I* didn't make the difference, *they* did. Maybe I said or did something that sparked an action or decision on their part, yet they did the real work.

Personally, I'm not sure if I need to know when I'm someone's "Aly." On one hand, I appreciate the affirmation, and on the other hand, knowing what I did is not as significant as what the person did as a result. The focus in on THEIR actions.

You've given me much to ponder, and I appreciate it. You inspire and impress me!

Lead on,
angie