Thanks Christina for stopping by.  I forget about that 5 to 1 ratio, but it makes sense.  I spend a lot of time mulling over things that go wrong, taking the negativity to heart, but it takes more to overcome that negativity.

I loved your aside...  aren't we all a person of influence?  So true, so important, so often overlooked.  I appreciate these good reminders as well!

Deb