Thanks, Paul - I am deeply appreciative of your kind words.

Yes, Burkus has worked his way into my inner circle of inspiration and wisdom as well.  He has a nice writing style and the ability to lay things out so clearly that I have a permanent forehead mark from saying "Well, of course ..." and slapping myself:).

Like Jane Anderson says and you have amplified, it really is all about our choices.

Easier to go with the flow or hoot derisively from the sidelines, at least from what I see happening too often in the workplace.   Intentional and effective choices are neither easy or safe, but that is one of the essential skills to be developed, both for leadership and for life.

Thanks - always enjoy your contributions through your posts and your thoughtful comments.

John