Thanks for sharing your own experience, Jane. I agree that mindset can make a huge difference when it comes to accepting critique from others. Intentionality is key, and when we can shift from being reactive to reflective, we are already ten steps ahead (though it is often easier said than done)!

As I reflect reflect back, I shudder when I think about all of the times in the past I internalized another’s critique instead of seeing it for what it was — both an invitation to learn and a reflection of someone else’s value system, perspective and/or experience, not necessarily my own. Learning to trust myself instead of leaning into others’ approval has been an important element of my own leadership journey.