So I was trying to figure out how to tell you I love this post without starting out in the 'same old way' - you know, like: another great post or thought provoking or insightful or introspective or - see? Your post is all of those. An my comment leads right up to my answer to the question "Which of the three changes David Burkus recommends has the most potential, in your opinion?" Others might have a different answer but in my mind this is the hinge:   When we change our choices, we change the outcomes.

Last time I checked, choices are at the beginning of all outcomes.