Like me, you know that in order to be successful in life and business you have to develop resilience.  You are probably quite adept at being resilient in most parts of your life.  A friend of mine has this saying whenever things get tough.  “It’s character building.”  A bit of a clique, but unless you give up, that’s precisely what challenges do; build character.  I used to think she was being harsh until I grew up enough to realise that it’s more loving and kind not to reinforce a victim mentality.  The problem with believing you are a victim is that it strips you of all power, and any hope of reclaiming yourself.  <a href="http://www.peoplediscovery.co.uk/2012/10/25/when-trouble-hits-8-ways-to-develop-resilience-options-and-falling-up/">Read More</a>