I'm not sure, but you may have hit on the THE NUMBER ONE PROBLEM people face in trying to move on.  It seems that no matter how upset others might be about a failure, there is typically no greater critic for any of us than we are of our self.  We can find an escape from the criticisms and slams of other people, but it's difficult to shut off the condemnations you and I may self-inflict in those moments of solitude.

Thanks Susan, not only for the encouragement you offered to others with your comments, but to me too!